Letter To My Daughter That She Never Got To Read When She Demanded That I Allow Her To Pierce Her Tongue

June 23, 2005

Dear Kristy,

I thought that a letter would better explain my feelings about the conversation that just took place about the tongue piercing. I told you that I would think about it, and I did, and when I gave you the reasons, you just wanted to hang up.

The tongue piercing has nothing to do with wanting to get to know you as you, or you wanting to get to know me as me. I have not seen you except for eleven minutes since December, and if I went with you to get your tongue pierced, I was allowed a visitation with you. I felt manipulated. If I said yes, you would be my buddy. If I said no, I will never see you. This is how I laid out my decision. These were my thoughts when I took the time to decide because I love you. I really did think of letting you do it, but I had to stand by my own belief’s, and make the proper decision which I as your mother felt was best. I don’t want a dishonest relationship with you. If my decisions happen to make you angry, I don’t want to be abused by you for standing up for my own beliefs. That was what happened in the past. By writing this letter to you, and going by the decision of my own heart, I believe that is best for our relationship. I set boundaries now. Sometimes love is tough love. One day when you have your own child, you will understand that. I put the reasons for letting you get it done first that I thought about, and the no reasons second. Like I said, no matter how hard the truth is. The truth is the truth, and one thing that you do know about me, is that I live by truth and honesty. For me to against my own belief I can’t do. What you choose to do with my decision is your own free will. I love you still the very same. I really do love you. I think that you may see that when I am finished with the yes and no list.

Tongue Piercing

Yes:
I would get to see you, and that I wanted very much. So much that I was willing to compromise all things that I saw right.
I wanted you to have what you wanted, so you knew that I accepted you unconditionally.
If I let you do this, I hoped that you may have really have wanted to come home.
No:
I felt that I would again have no say so in our relationship if I said yes.
It was a power play.
I really hate tongue rings.
I was worried about infection even if it was done right. I talked with several people in the past who had it done, and two regretted it, and two liked it. So, I thought about what my own tongue getting pierced with both sides of the story, and how I would feel to make my decision, and I came up with no.
I thought about the lies, the deceit, and the perjury, that you have committed, and what we have truly gone through because of it. You are not even sorry, nor are you willing to admit what you and others have done. To know me, is to know what we have been through because of it if you are going to use manipulative techniques to get something done that you want.
The lies, the deceit, and the perjury, was so bold that I still believe that you have been threatened by people in positions of power, and that if you do admit to everything, you were threatened that something would happen to someone close to you. Because of the threats, the drive by shooting attempt, and other things that I know to be hard cold facts, I couldn’t say yes if the truth had not come out.
I believe that it is a manipulation done with the aide of an educated Social Worker to make me look unreasonable in the eyes of the court again, when I am not unreasonable.
If I had said yes, I would end up being manipulated into a life of lies, and I would have to everything that you demanded. The officials would have won.
No matter how safe and happy I hear you say you are. I believe that you are not. I believe that you have been forced to behave this way. There is no changing my mind because of hard cold facts that I am aware of.
I believe that instead of sticking with the plan of just a hug, or a movie, and being slapped in the face with a decision like this, and me even having to talk about these things because I didn’t want to, and my having to defend my reasons. This was another attempt by you and Social Workers and all of the others involved to make me react unreasonably because you are so close to my heart. If you were not close to my heart, I would have never stayed in Oroville while I put up with death threats and proven attempts, and the deaths of some people I know because of the original lies, deceit, and manipulation. To let you have the tongue ring would be dishonoring my friend’s lives that have been lost, and the torture and threats that they have gone through because they stood up for the truth also. This was the biggest factor in my decision. Like I said, there is a lot that you don’t know about, and shouldn’t have to know about. The arrangement to ask for a tongue ring, and not just a hug or a movie, I consider direct child abuse to you by those in authority because I am forced to talk about this with you now instead of in a therapy situation.
This piercing is a felony in the State of California. I have to agree with the law because to make a decision at your age that is permanent and disfiguring, you may regret when you go through some known mental changes that will happen with you in the next couple of years. You are you now, but two years from now, you may be very different. I do not want to be a part of your possible regrets in the future.
I believe that you are mentally ill, and to make such a decision while I believe that you are mentally ill, I cannot abide by and say yes.

In conclusion, I have more reasons on the no side of my list than I do on the yes side of my list, and I had to go with a rational thought out decision. I could not go only with my intense desire and want to give you what you want, so my dear child would want to come home, and I could hold you in my arms again. If I had said yes, and you did come home, our relationship would have been the same. I am looking for change in our relationship. Only honesty and truth can abide in a real relationship. It is a court order that I listen to your allegations that I know for a fact are fabricated. Don’t you think that it is your turn to listen to the feelings of your mother, and the facts of what your lies, deceit, and manipulations have put me through? To not have you tell the truth about your actions, I believe is child abuse. It is not making you a viable member of Society, and for me, I remember your values that were sometimes better than my own. Where did those values go when this is continued? I believe that it allows people to be perpetrated against. This means I love you for you. What other parents would want their child home after what you and others have done? I will not hold it against you, and I really do want to drop the past, but you will have to know that the events that have taken place in our lives will forever be engraved in my heart. I just want you home, and I just want to have some good times together Kristy. You asking me to get your tongue pierced under these circumstances is as ridiculous as my expecting you to tell the truth at this moment because of some of the factors I listed above in my no answers.

Now that the nasty part is over, here are some of my goals in my own life, and things that are going on with me.

I have a job as a reporter, and I am excited.
I have several close friends that are true friends. I can’t ever be thankful enough for them being in my life.
I now have documentation about my physical health, and the help I will receive because of that. That is the greatest event.
I have plans in the future of writing, and art that have now come into the realm of not just a dream. I am so looking forward to creating, and of you being a part of that.
I enjoy every moment that I look at dovey wovey, and the reasons you gave her to me, and smile.

Lets plan to go to a movie, or just get a hug from each other like we planned before. Let me know. I love you dearly with all of my heart.

Love, Mom

The Story Behind The Picture Of My Daughter's Friend With The Split Tongue On This Blog Site.

Hello,

After the comments and questions about the photo below of my daughter's friend with the split tongue, I posted the place where we found the picture. We borrowed a friend's scanner, and got color copies. We had no working CD Rom for a long time. We could only type documents mostly.

As you can see, Felicia posted this picture herself. We didn't even know that she was a Foster Child. The only thing that we knew was that she was my daughter's friend at school.

The My Space pages were not even known about until after the successful abduction of my daughter took place.

I do call it an abduction because after talking with individual's at the FBI, we were told that it was an abduction because of all the fabricated paperwork without signatures, and other illegalities, and the true events that were disclosed which I will not go into right now.

There was another drive by shooting that took place several days ago because of this, so the information will have to wait. My daughter has no idea of what we have been we have been through.

Felicia's mother contacted us, and I will post that information soon. It is important because Felicia was violated in Foster Care also. The only reason I post her first name is because her name is on the My Space page that was posted.

My daughter has had multiple piercings, dyed hair, cut hair, while in Foster Care. All without my concent. It is against the law for this to be done. All rights of mine have been violated, but Children's Services does not care, and when I brought the problem up with the Foster Agency, the woman snickered over the phone. I could see that it was useless to even speak with these people unless I had to.

Written by, Pamela Mulaskey

This is the first page of my daughter My Space page. She had twenty-five friends, and Children's Services recieved a copy of all of her friend's with written concern's of the friend's that caused us to worry. One friend had instruction's on how to successfully slit their wrists. This was not a concern to Janice Konno, or Lana Wickham McGuire. This is only part of what was ignored. Lana Wickham was the only one to get the pages with the written notes, as I had to hurry to get them to her. I am sure that they are probably disposed of just like the court file that was shredded, and they all pretended the court proceedings never took place including my daughter telling this under oath. When I produced the shredded court case, that was ignored also, and I never got any court documents for that court date. I wrote a full report about the shredded court file which I will post at another time. Posted these: Pamela Mulaskey 

This is another conversation that took place with my daughter on her My Space page. Again, Felicia posted her own picture. 

This is another page of my daughter's My Space page. 

This is another copy of my daughter's my space page that was filed with the Butte County Superior Court on March 9, 2005 

This page shows the friend Felicia having a conversation with my daughter on her My Space page. Felicia posted this picture herself. This was a copy that was made for a filed court document. It was copied because we had no working computer.  

This is the first page of Krystine Fredrick's My Space page. You can see my daughter's picture on her site as her friend.  

This is the second page of Krystine Fredrick's My Space page. My daughter's friend. 

We Have A New Website

We have a new web site, and here is the link to it.

http://www.fightingbuttecounty.4t.com

Pamela Mulaskey

Death Threat Page three 

Death Threat Page 2 

Death Threat Statement Page 1 

Death Threat Made To Pamela Mulaskey Statement

Hello,

This next post is a hand written statement that I turned in to the Butte County Superior Court. It had to be hand written because of the theft of all of our computer's, the selling of our home with a deed restriction, and we were homeless at the time of this court proceeding.

Written by, Pamela Mulaskey

Other Side of hand written note for a placement meeting for my daughter. 

Hand Written Note for a placement meeting of my daughter. 

Andrea Brazell advertising herself for sex in Sacramento, California, where Butte County Childrens Services Paid to move her, so she could take custody of my daughter.  

Hand written letter for a Children's Services Placement Meeting

Hello,

I am posting a hand written letter that was given to a store owner, for a meeting with Children's Services for a family placement meeting. All of the court papers that I have had in this case that have been given to me do not have a filed stamp put on them, they are not signed by the Judge, the clerks, and I even had one court file shredded.

For this meeting to be called, and given to a store owner on a hand written note in hopes that I might get it is not legal. It should have been written on letterhead. Also, the meeting took place because Janice Konno had demanded that my daughter be given to my next door neighbor, and I brought in evidence to the meeting to prove that this was not to take place.

Children's Services paid for my neighbor's to move, and had planned to move my daughter there to stay with them on a permenant basis through a forced guardianship.

I will post those things as well.

Andrea Brazell was found on the internet with her breasts showing advertising herself for sex on the internet. The picture with the brick wall etc. in the background matches the description told to us by telephone, and recorded for evidence at a later date by someone we asked to do so for us, is the same description as the picture.

I edited the picture so her breasts are covered somewhat, and I give the web site link with it. This is just the start of the evidence we obtained of the intensional pandering and abduction of my daughter because of the evidence we have against Butte County.

This kind of scenerio has happened to many people. The same tactics. The same information. The same unsigned, unfiled court papers, the same fake jailings, etc.

The FBI told us that this note is not legal, and so did our therapist working with us on this case.

P.S. Coffee was spilled on the note before it was scanned.

Written by, Pamela Mulaskey

Immunity

We would like to post this for the people visiting our Blog. There has been some reluctance from certain people to become involved in this situation, because they are, in some way, implicated by the evidence. Our goal, is to eliminate those people responsible for these abuses, to children, and families, of the Oroville/Butte County area. To have them removed permanantly from any public office, and all positions of authority. Their prosecution will be at the discretion of Federal authorities. And if any person wishes to step forward, to testify, or with information or evidence pertaining to the victimization of the people of Butte County by persons in positions of authority, we are authorizing and guaranteeing them immunity from prosecution for their testimony. We have already given this guarantee to several persons, including former Social Workers, District Attorney Investigators, and other persons in positions of authority. One of the things we ask is for additional witnesses and evidence in the Murder of Jennifer Hopkins, to go along with the three that we already have. Jen was transporting evidence in our case, video tapes, when she died in her mysterious "accident". But any information or evidence that anyone is able to contribute to the removal from office, and prosecution, of any persons in positions of authority in Butte County are granted and guaranteed immunity from prosecution pertaining to their testimony. Together, we can make a difference.

YOU THE PEOPLE

IMPORTANT NOTE
Numerous people, online, in person, and over the phone, have asked us "If you have so much evidence, then how come they’re (Butte County) still harassing you, hurting kids, and not in Jail"? It’s a good question, but if anyone had taken the time to actually read our Blogs, and pay attention, they would have answered that for themselves.
We have a preponderance of irrefutable evidence, Not only in the current case, Butte County Case # J-31659, but also from our previous investigation, that over 150 persons, in the private sector, and in positions of authority in at least 9 Butte County agencies, have abducted, raped, molested, sodomized, pandered, prostituted, used for pornography, sold into slavery (Trafficking in Humanity), tortured, and murdered, children in the Oroville/Butte County area. Currently, there are 52 other persons, victims, witnesses, former persons of authority, etc, who are waiting not only to bring their additional evidence forward, but to testify and document the heinous and barbaric actions of persons in positions of authority in Butte County. Other than the audio, and video tapes of these persons in positions of authority raping and molesting children, but also documentation, including original court documentation from Contra Costa County, and Siskyou County, of the conviction of a person in a very high position of authority, who was convicted in those counties on charges of child molestation, rape, and the production/distribution of child pornography.
However, the thing that no takes into account, is that every Butte County agency is involved in this. Sheriff’s Deputies, District Attorney Personnel, and Judges. Put that together with the fact that one of the District Attorney Investigators is married to a Sacramento FBI agent, and the chances of justice are very slim. We took this to the FBI, like citizens who are harassed, persecuted, threatened, assaulted, abducted, and murdered would do. They confirmed every suspicion, from the Civil, Constitutional, and Criminal offenses by persons in positions of authority in Butte County, to the fact that our Daughter was abducted, and our property stolen by these criminals. They also made many promises. But since their office is contaminated by Butte County, the GAG order went into effect as soon as our evidence arrived on their desk.
So to answer that question posed by so many, I ask you one : WHO? Just who is it you expect us to report this to? What official agency, that we can reasonably contact, will help us? Because some of the actions of certain County personnel are outright Sedition and Treason, we contacted the DHS on this matter. Their reaction was to hang up, call the Butte County "Badge Gods", believe everything they said, called us back, and told us we should "work" with Butte County on this, because they were doing an "investigation" too. Right, just like the "accident" of Jennifer Hopkins, she was buried "with honors" by the same people who murdered her, because she was bringing us evidence, in the form of several VHS tapes, of persons in positions of authority, within the fire departments. And just who was it, who arrived at the scene Well before it would have been physically possible for them to arrive if they had not been "in the vicinity", couldn’t extract her from the vehicle, even though they had extraction equipment, and couldn’t put out the fire that killed her, even though they were in a FIRE truck? So just who is it we are supposed to report to?
So, in the interest of justice, and common humanity, we are reporting to the only ones who will listen, without prejudice or bias, who have no "vested" interest in the criminal activities of those in positions of authority, and who know what we say is true, because they have experienced it themselves. We are reporting the truth, to YOU. Whether it be WE THE PEOPLE of the United States of America, or whether you are sitting in another country, we are reporting this to you. Because unless you are a supporter of the atrocities committed in Auschwitz during the Holocaust, or you are a pedophile who is paying these corrupt officials to be a "client" with these children, or are a brainless conformist, a sheep being lead around by the propaganda spouted by "those in authority", you are the ones who truly matter. Given past circumstances, it is more than reasonable to consider that we are not going to survive our pursuits. To date, there have been seven others who have attempted this. None of them survived. They either ended up in an "accident", a "suicide", an "unsolved homicide", or incarcerated on some fabricated charge, where they died in prison. And since we are not only getting death threats, drive bys, assaulted at our door, and "those in authority" are pursuing their fraudulent case, the outcome, and our survival, looks pretty grim.
But in our documentation, our evidence, our pictures, and our Blogs, YOU, the ones who truly matter, the people, will know the truth. Our Blogs will most probably be our epitaph, and we will someday be commended posthumously. This can’t continue forever. Some day, the People will wake up, and say "NO MORE" to the corruption of Butte County, and every other organization and agency involved in this heinous and barbaric abuse to our children, and our families. CPS will be abolished, and an organization will take it’s place whose intention is to protect children, and reunite families, instead of using the children for their own sick agenda, and declaring them "runaways". An organization not made up of middle aged women, with "abuse issues", who want nothing but to compete with other "Social Workers", to see who can abduct the most children, and torture the innocent families to fulfill some agenda of punishing others for their own abuses. Go ahead, check out the history of these "Social Workers". What you will find, is that 90% of them were victims of abuse, or domestic violence, and they received their degree in "Social Work" because of some resource offered to them through their programs, or welfare, as a way to "Pay Back" their debt to society. Oh Yes, they do some "Paying Back", not as a debt, but as a way to make others suffer. And the Foster "parents"? Of the ones we have documented, just here in Butte County, over half of them have males who are convicted sex offenders (before Megan’s Law), or both parents have multiple convictions for violent offenses, dealing drugs, or other "fine examples" of parenting. And not one of them, even if they have their own kids, is a parent. They are, quite simply, people with kids, not parents. Any time a Social Worker, or Foster "parent", allows a child to do whatever they "want", they are no more a parent than a rabid Pit Bull, and just as destructive. A Parent’s job, duty, obligation, and privilege, is to instill positive values, impose reasonable restrictions and rules, Love and understand the ones that God gave them to caretake for him, and provide for them the things they need. Giving a child everything they "want", no matter how many crimes they commit, is being a "buddy", not a parent.
So, since we have few options for justice, and to save our children from these barbaric criminals, You will be the ones we report to. Perhaps you are in a position to help. Perhaps you know someone who will help. Perhaps you, yourself went through this, found the right tools and resources, and were victorious over the corruption. Or perhaps you can simply pray for us, our family, our Daughter, and all of the children who are victims of this heinous and barbaric corruption. Two things come to mind in this, which go back to the foundation of this great nation, that is not so great any more. The ride of Paul Revere, and his cry "To Arms, To Arms", and Patrick Henry’s words "The Pen is Mightier than the Sword". We oppose violence, and it would resolve nothing. But every human being on this planet has a voice. Our "Arms" are our words, facts, and evidence. And if all people, in one voice, shout unto the ears of those in authority "NO MORE", the walls will be brought down on this corruption and decadence, just as the people circled the city, and brought down the walls with a mighty blast from their trumpets.
Progressively and retaliatorily, the incidents, and days, draw closer. Within the past few weeks, our animals were poisoned and killed, a death threat dropped in our car, and just this past evening, fiver women, and two kids, attacked my wife on our doorstep, the women beating her, and keeping me from responding, while the 9 year old was trying to stab her with an ice pick. The reaction of local law enforcement, like the attitude in New Orleans, was that, since we are just "lesser" people, and low income, a report was taken, but no action. And since these people threatened to return, and they will, when I do defend my family from these aggressors, I will be the one arrested. Then, while I am in Jail on fabricated and falsified charges, which will most probably be dismissed, these people, who will not be hindered in any way, will be free to come back again. We have watched this happen a thousand times. A call is made that people are being threatened or attacked. The cops have to finish their donuts and coffee before they respond. The victims end up using whatever means they have to in order to survive the attack. And when the cops finally do arrive, the victims are arrested, and the criminals walk away. That is a really good way for corrupt agencies to generate revenue and income. And I have already been threatened that I was going to be incarcerated on false charges, that the charges would be of a type that other inmates hate, and before they put me in General Population, with the Life Sentence Felons, and die, they will show me a video of them (including the 300 pound District Attorney "investigator") raping my 16 year old Daughter to death.
So who do we report to? I think we have answered that well enough for anyone with an IQ above 25. It’s not rocket science. We began by reporting to Butte County Officials, the retaliatory actions were to steal our property, abduct our daughter, and illegally condemn our home. Each time we have reported anything, it has resulted in drive bys, threats, animal deaths, assaults, suspended drivers licenses, illegal wire taps of all kinds, vandalism, intimidation, and an assortment of other harassments and persecutions. Even our Blogs result in our computers being hacked, crashed, and other attacks. But until they do kill us, or otherwise disable us from speaking the truth for others to hear, we will persevere, and continue our fight, not just for our own family, but for the children, the victims, and the other familys who are persecuted and destroyed. If there is nothing else that you can think of to do, we can all pray. And there is a miracle born every three seconds. So maybe, just maybe, with the prayers of everyone, and the efforts of those who are able, we can succeed and overcome these barbarians, and gain victory for the human race.
Than You
And God Bless you All